Totally in agreement ! Cosplay is to be a fun hobby - not to be drama-filled at all. Not sure why ppl have to feel this way at all. And those who face remarks, ignore them. Why should the opinion of someone you don’t know, some random person affect you ?

I admit, my own cosplay of Brief from Panty & Stocking ain’t the best but I really don’t care what people think. It’s how I feel about the character that matters. If I’m happy with myself, I’m happy. 

Ignore them. It is a waste of your own precious energy to worry about what someone else says. I rather use my energy for things I really like and can control. If I can’t control it, I don’t let it bother me.